Video: 'Abortion Lord' Who Sleeps With 1000s Of Patients Before Operations (Viewers' Discretion Advised)

The dehumanizing video shows a Ghanaian ‘Dr.’ Joshua Drah, the medical assistant who had been illegally operating an illegal abortion clinic – Universal Mission Clinic – conducting thousands of abortions while sleeping with some of his clients.

Young girls come to his clinic for abortions, and while performing the illegal abortion with unsterilized equipment, he will tell them that there’s a membrane covering their vagina and his hands can’t get to it, so he needs to use his penis to open it up. While the girls’ legs are strapped, he will remove his pants and have sex with them with no protection. And when he’s done, he will continue the abortion.

The raw footage was all captured on tape by a Ghanaian journalist who went undercover (Viewers’ Discretion Advised). It’s sickening, and there’s sex in it so be careful where you watch the video…

Roselyn Needs N16m for Eye Surgery

Born into a once happy home, Roselyn Etsemobor, 34-year-old lost her father as an infant. However she got every care her widowed mother could give her. As a child, she grew up having great dreams of good education, good job and a blissful marital life. But a debilitating eye cancer that struck her at age 24 has rendered the once loved and admired young lady an object of scorn. Roselyn’s hope to live well has not only collapsed like a pack of cards, she is now despised by friends and rejected by those who should help her.

Her mother, the only source of succour, has exhausted her resources and is now helplessly sick, owing to Roselyn’s deteriorating eye cancer.

Every other day, Roselyn’s sight inches closer to blindness. Except something is done, she would continue to languish.

How did it all begin? Roslyn, who lives at 22, Amuda Jacoba Cre s c e n t , Agbara, Lagos, said; “It started as I was having constant catarrh which refused to go. I went to Jos Teaching Hospital. At that time, I was living in Jos. At the hospital, several tests were conducted, but they told me that nothing was wrong with me. Nevertheless, they gave me Amoxil and some other drugs.” That was in 2001.

In 2004, she relocated to Lagos as a result of the crisis in Jos, as her shop was set ablaze during the crisis. In 2005, she noticed that the catarrh just stopped and thought everything was okay.

“But in 2006, I woke up one day and noticed that the upper side of my right eye was swollen. After some days, I went to Ikorodu General Hospital where it was discovered that my left eye was impaired.”

Roselyn was then referred to Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH) for further tests. At LASUTH, doctors recommended that some tests be conducted on her. But she explained that she could not undergo those tests owing to paucity of fund.

“While I was moving from one place to another trying to raise the money, I was knocked down by a vehicle and in the process, I hit the same spot that was already swollen on the ground; this aggravated the situation. The scan I was to do at LASUTH was to cost N78, 000 and I was to undergo surgery,” she said.

Somehow, she was told that the ailment would be cured if she could be put on a regime of drugs. When the treatment was carried out, the swollen eye subsided.

“I thought I was okay but it later came back. I went to different doctors and they said there was nothing wrong with the eye,” she lamented.

At that point, she did another scan and it was discovered that the ‘catarrh’ that receded was pushing her eyeball out. Roselyn was booked for a surgery at LASUTH. “But the doctor that was supposed to do the surgery said he was scared to do it; he reluctantly agreed he was going to do it,” Roselyn further revealed.

She added that she was given a date for the surgery, which was November 2009, but on the day of the surgery, the doctor was not in the hospital.” They said he was on leave. The other doctors at the hospital volunteered to do it, but I noticed that they were only using me for experiment. I felt bad. All these while, they didn’t give me ordinary p a r a c e t a m o l tablets.”

Eventually, Roselyn got in touch with some Ophthalmologists at the Hamilton Eye Institute, Tennessee, United States. The experts, she explained, said they could correct the left eye which is impaired and also do surgery on the right eye, which is cancerous. At the moment, the cancer on the right eye has become malignant. According the medics, both treatment and the surgery are going to cost $100,000 (about N16million) and that it would be done in America.

But what efforts have her family members made to assist her? She replied, “I lost my father when I was a baby, according to what my mother told me. Because of my situation, my mother is now sick. I am the first daughter of my family. We have exhausted all the money we have.”

So far, some sympathizers have contributed N4million, according to Lady of Africa Foundation, a charity body floated by Ms. Bukola Fasuyi, which has taken up her case. Fasuyi is thus appealing to well-meaning Nigerians to come to Roselyn’s aid.

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Definitely, sure you know whom to contact if you wish to assist Roselyn raise the money she needs for this surgery.

You can contact: Lady of Africa Foundation or the publishing company that wrote this report. Company and Address: National Mirror, Mirror House, 155/161, Broad Street, Lagos Telephone: 0702 710 7407,   ABUJA OFFICE: NICON Insurance House, Second Floor, District Area, Abuja.,Telephone: 0807 042 8249.

‘My boyfriend’s parents rejected me and his child’

Abandoned by lover, despised by would-have-been in-laws, Fatimoh Jaji faces life stoically with her daughter even as she hopes for N6million that would rid her of stigma. A tumour has disfigured the right side of her face. Fatimoh Jaji is just 24 years old, an age when she should be enjoying life to the fullest. But she looks much older than this age. And definitely, she is not having a swell time. Admitted, she is neither suffering from hunger nor homelessness, two of the things which absence most human beings find most unbearable. Rather, her albatross is the social stigma she suffers as a result of a health condition which has disfigured the right side of her face. Looking at her is therefore not for the faint of heart, and she confirmed it. “There are some people who see me on the road and they turn away in both fear and revulsion. That has happened to me not once or twice and it keeps happening constantly,” she added. Despite the condition which makes some people not to even want to look at her, she was still lucky enough to get a boyfriend who impregnated her. She gave birth to a baby girl, Halima, on February 15. Sadly, Halima’s birth only brought more trauma and social rejection for her.

“When my mother went to inform my boyfriend’s parents that I had given birth to a grandchild for them, they told my mother that the child wasn’t their son’s and that they were not interested in it.

They said they couldn’t have anything to do with a disfigured being like me and that their son would never marry me. They also said my parents and I should care for the child the way we cared for the pregnancy.”

Ganiyu, a Kick Against Indiscipline (KAI) officer who is Halima’s father, backed his parents’ action in a way, going by Halima’s statement that “Ganiyu said he would only marry me if I get healed of my condition.”

And on if he’s supporting her financially to get healed, she was emphatic that “he is not.”

Speaking on how she and Ganiyu met, she said, “It was when we had accommodation problems and we went to stay with my grandmother.

While there, I would sometimes sit outside in the evenings and Ganiyu approached me that he liked me.

After a time, I began to like him too and that’s how our relationship began.”

Fatimoh’s condition has been diagnosed as neurofibromatosis. “I was four years old when a boil developed above my right eye and as I grew older, it grew bigger.”

Now it is so big that her right eye is no longer visible and yet it still bulges down in a mass to her chin and mouth region.

But they didn’t begin to seek serious medical intervention until when Fatima was about eight years old in 1998 and it was apparent that the problem wasn’t going to go away.

“We went to the general hospital on the Island from where we were referred to LUTH.

Doctors operated on it at LUTH, saying it might and might not return and that it was best treated abroad.

Three days after the operation, it began growing again and they discharged me after a month, saying that they could still do the operation again, but we would have to pay for it again.”

The condition has really robbed her of a lot of life’s benefits.

In addition to Ganiyu’s parents rejecting her for their son, she couldn’t acquire education because of it.

“I was in primary 4 when I was advised to stop coming to school.

They said I was scaring the other students and that’s how my education stopped.” Now, she is a roadside trader at the famous Idumota Market, Lagos where some people give her alms.

“Sometimes, people give me money when they come across me in the market.

I know they do so out of sympathy for me. Even when I tell them I’m a trader and not a beggar, they insist on giving me money.”

Like the typical Nigerian, Fatimoh has not given up that there’s a better and brighter day for her.

While her spirit should have been broken by her condition to the extent of committing suicide, she is rather full of zest and optimistic that when there’s life there’s hope.

Her optimism might not be unconnected to medical reports that claim that her condition can be successfully turned around.

“When we went to LUTH, the head of the medical team that attended to me categorically stated that my condition is best treated abroad. When they operated on me, they did so only in the belief that it just might work for me.

“When the LUTH operation failed, we sought the assistance of the Lagos State Government and we were referred to LASUTH.

When they examined me there, they also opined that it would be best if I go abroad for the necessary intervention.

They are also willing to do the operation but we’ve not done it there because their statement that it would be better if we go abroad made us recall that LUTH’s doctors also said that, so we realised it would be just a waste of time doing it in Nigeria again.”

Even though she has been advised to travel out to seek better medical help, she hasn’t done so and Saturday Mirror asked her point-blank why she hasn’t.

“We cannot afford the cost,” she responded sadly. “It is millions of naira, six million at least, and we cannot afford it. I know if my parents had the money, they would gladly give it to me.

If I had it too, I wouldn’t mind spending it just to make me return to normal.

Please I am calling on Nigerians to come to my aid so I can live a normal life,” she said as she broke down in tears.

Sobbing uncontrollably, she said, “Tejuosho Diagnostic Centre has helped us to get in touch with a hospital in India and they said they can correct my condition with three operations over the course of a year.

“For the first operation, I will spend five days in the hospital, recuperate there for two weeks, then I will return for the second surgery three or six months afterwards, follow the same procedure again before returning the third.

“Each operation will cost $7,500 asides the cost of flight tickets, accommodation, feeding. They also said I must come with a companion so it’s two of us that will have to go together.

Please I beg Nigerians to come to my aid.”

To help her raise this money contact the bellow address or you can email our facebook page to facilitate it or you can contact the Tejuosho Diagnostic Centre or  LUTH:

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Man Pulls A Gun On Political Activist During Live Talk Show(Video)

After trading insults with activist, parliamentarian first throws a shoe and then points a gun at adversary. Host tries to break up brawl. No shots fired

A Jordanian member of parliament pulled a gun on a political activist during a furious debate live on Jordanian TV on Friday.

The MP, named in a YouTube clip of the confrontation as Mohammed Shawabka, was debating a political activist named in the clip as Mansour Sayf al-Din Murad, discussing aspects of Jordanian politics including attitudes surrounding the uprising in Syria.

As the discussion became more heated, each of the men accused the other of various crimes and deviancies, including working for the Israeli Mossad intelligence agency. "You're a Mossad agent," said one. "You're a big crook," said the other.

The MP stood up and began screaming and pointing at the activist, who was sitting opposite him, while the host of the program, Mohammed Habashneh, seated in the center, desperately urged his guests to "calm down."

Instead, the MP sat back down, bent over and took off his right shoe, and threw it at the activist, who ducked behind his desk, knocking it over.

Then the MP pulled a gun — a silver pistol — out of his waistband and briefly brandished it toward the activist, who walked toward him. The MP kept holding the gun, but was no longer pointing it at his critic.

The two men struggled, with the parliamentarian again careful now not to point the gun at his adversary, while the panicked host circumnavigated the strewn furniture to try to break up the fight.

But the two men would not be easily separated, and the brawl continued for some time before the program cut to the credits.

How To Make Nigeria Great Again! A Must Read!!

This is a great revelation of: How One Man Developed His Country By Changing It From One Of Most Corrupt To Amongst Least Corrupt Between 2003 - 2011

After reading this piece, we believe that the solution to Nigeria's problem can be solved within four (4) years. Anyone who tells you something different is, most probably, lying!

How long do you think it will take to repair Nigeria?

Our rulers usually say 52 years of independence is not enough, and that this generation can't achieve it. They tell us that "we will get there someday" meaning in future unborn generation.

But, is that actually true? Well, check out how a president did it in 8 years incidentally at the same period when OBJ, GEJ and PDP were busy retrogressing Nigeria, and make up your minds. If only we can have someone replicate this in Nigeria:

When Nika Gilauri, the premier of Georgia, tells you that the prosperity of his country has been achieved because it has become one of the “least corrupt” countries in the world, you, the investor, take note.

But it wasn’t always like that. After the demise of the USSR, Georgia was not only one of the most corrupt of the former-Soviet Republics, it was one of the most corrupt countries in the world. Bribe-to-drive was the norm; police stopped cars at least twice an hour to extort a non-trivial sum of money. The then interior minister infamously quipped: “Give me petrol only. My people will take care of their own salaries.”

Being a traffic cop was so lucrative that you had to pay a bribe of between $2,000 and $20,000 to get the job in the first place. Graft was endemic. Georgians passed more envelopes to bent officials than the post office does letters. Meanwhile the economy crumbled and the state was left bankrupt and powerless.

The election of Mikhail Saakashvili changed everything. A bold reformer, he was swept to power in the “Rose Revolution” at the end of 2003 by the overwhelming desire for radical change. His closely-knit team is unified by a common vision and supported by a compliant parliament and judiciary.

The new government wasn’t just radical - it shocked and awed. Ministers, oligarchs and officials were sacked or arrested. Those who resisted were dealt with decisively, sometimes brutally. The state confiscated $1bn worth of property. Custom officials bore collective responsibility; an entire shift would be punished if one officer was caught accepting bribes. Corrupt professors were kicked out with a lifetime ban from academia.

But the piece de la resistance was Saakashvili’s order to sack the entire 16,000-strong police force on a single day, to replace them with some of the best and brightest university graduates. Today, Georgia ranks alongside Finland as having the least corrupt police force in the world and their standout uniforms are rumoured to have been designed by Armani.

The campaign expanded irresistibly. Tax offices were equipped with CCTV; university exam papers were printed in the UK and held in bank vaults until needed; and officials were constantly tested in sting operations. The proactive assault on graft was accompanied by a PR campaign to undermine respect for criminal groups and introduce respect for the law.

The campaign then turned to the sectors. First up was the power sector that was widely used as a cash cow for well-connected oligarchs. In less than a year, Georgia went from net importer to exporter of electricity and the sector became the target of long-term foreign investment.

Tax collection followed. Georgia’s tax base consisted of just 80,000 companies in 2003 and tax collection was a mere 12% of GDP. Saakashvili slashed red tape and introduced flat personal and corporate taxes. Eight years later over 250,000 companies are on the register, and pay the equivalent of 25% of GDP. Georgia now boasts one of the most liberal tax regimes in the world, on par with the Gulf states and Hong Kong.

Lastly came deregulation, with many rules and agencies simply abolished, removing channels of corruption in the process. Among other things, car registration became so easy that used cars became the largest export item in 2011. Georgia moved swiftly from the bottom of the World Bank’s Doing Business ranking (112) into the top 20 (16) by 2012. Foreign investment followed and fuelled a multi-year surge.

But perhaps, the most lucrative Georgian export would be the fight against corruption itself – from which many states mired in graft could benefit. The Georgians patented a process whose steps are replicable: establish early reform credibility by radical action, launch a frontal assault excluding no sacred cows, attract new blood, limit the role of the state via privatisation and deregulation, use technology and communication to maximum effect, and above all, be bold and purposeful.

Georgia’s close and distant neighbours should take heed. Their prime ministers and presidents have got their job cut out for them.

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Hypertension: Causes, Effects and Management

Michael Oketunmbi (real names withheld) is a man in his mid-40s and a director in a top notch insurance firm. He has always been a busy man who felt he was hale and hearty and has no need to go for regular medical checkup. Lately he has been having consistent headaches and dizzy spells that refused to go even after taking some analgesics. Unfortunately, he ignored those warning signals until it was almost too late. One day, climbing the staircase leading to his office, he suddenly felt a sharp pain in his heart region and almost collapsed if some security agents had not come to his rescue. He was rushed to a nearby hospital, where he was diagnosed with high blood pressure that almost caused him a heart attack.

Michael is just minuscule of adult Nigerians who go about their daily routine without a thought to the state of their health unless they have a visible symptom that will make them to visit the hospital for checkup. Unfortunately, more often than not, they arrive as corpses when they should have taken earlier precautions.

When someone suffers a heart attack, what does it really mean? Dr Obiroa Orji, a medical practitioner with the Military Hospital, Ikoyi and also a member of a Non Governmental Organisation (NGO) known as Doctors Reach out Initiative who spoke with Sunday Mirror on this issue described heart attack as “a disease condition of the heart. It is a life threatening condition in the sense that the blood vessel to the heart is compromised.  Between stroke and a heart attack, there is the underlying medical condition called hypertension or high blood pressure which can predispose a person to these problems. If there is high blood pressure as a lay man usually calls it, it can cause a narrowing of the vessels sup-plying blood either to the brain which can lead to stoke or to the heart on the other side causing a heart attack.”

Hypertension, commonly called high blood pressure (HBP) means high tension in the arteries. Arteries are vessels that carry blood from the pumping heart to all the tissues and organs of the body. With every heart beat, the heart pumps blood through the arteries to the rest of the body. Blood pressure is the force of blood that is pushing up against the walls of the blood vessels. If the pressure is too high, the heart has to work harder to pump, and this could lead to organ damage and several illnesses such as heart attack, stroke, heart failure, aneurysm, or renal failure.

Dr. Orji explained that his NGO bridges the gap between the people who are sick and in their homes and those who have sought medical help and are in between the next medical appointment.

The medical expert said high blood pres-sure occurs when a patient has an elevated blood pressure, where the systolic pres-sure is greater than 160 and the diastolic is greater than 90. Normal blood pressure is below 120/80 while blood pressure of 140/90 or above is considered high.

The top number, the systolic blood pres-sure, corresponds to the pressure in the arteries as the heart contracts and pumps blood forward into the arteries. The bottom number, the diastolic pressure, rep-resents the pressure in the arteries as the heart relaxes after the contraction. The diastolic pressure reflects the lowest pres-sure to which the arteries are exposed.

Medical research reveals that an elevation of the systolic and/or diastolic blood pressure increases the risk of developing heart (cardiac) disease, kidney (renal) disease, eye damage, and stroke (brain dam-age). These complications of hypertension are often referred to as end-organ damage because damage to these organs is the end result of chronic (long duration) high blood pressure. For that reason, the diagnosis of high blood pressure is important so efforts can be made to normalise blood pressure and prevent complications.

Hypertension has been dubbed the silent killer by many medical experts be-cause it comes with little or no symptoms to warn the victim.  Most of the time, it may seem as if a heart attack comes out of the blue, but there are numerous symptoms that can sound the alert, if you ob-serve the changes in your body.

  According to a recent Harvard study, only 25 per cent of heart attack victims had no prior symptoms. Some of those symptoms include:

• Fatigue or confusion

• Dizziness

• Nausea

• Problems with vision

• Chest pains

• Breathing problems

• Irregular heartbeat

• Blood in the urine

• Palpitation or increase in heartbeat

• Severe headaches

Dr Orji explained that although the exact causes of hypertension are usually unknown, there are several factors that have been highly associated with the condition. “Hypertension is the most popular black disease. There is what we call risk factors for hypertension if someone is said to be hypertensive.

These include:

• Smoking

• Obesity or being overweight

• Diabetes 

• Sedentary lifestyle 

• Lack of physical activity

• High levels of salt intake (sodium sensitivity)

• Vitamin D deficiency

• High levels of alcohol consumption

• Stress

• Aging

• Medicines such as birth control pills

• Genetics and a family history of hypertension

• Statistics in the USA indicate that African Americans have a higher incidence of hypertension than other ethnicities.

Dr Orji advises that people should be careful of their salt intake as it aggravates the blood pressure. “Salt has an osmotic pull that tend to retain water and when this occurs, there is rate pressure. It’s not that you shouldn’t take salt but excessive intake is what we have to guard against. The correct advice is that you should not eat salt in excess in addition to what has been added when the food was cooked,” he advised.

Following the silent nature of the symptoms associated with this disease, medical experts advocate prevention of this problem rather than treatment. This is because hypertension actually does not have a cure but it is a disease condition that is man-aged throughout the person’s lifetime.

According to the medical expert, “this is a disease condition you must have to manage for the rest of your life once it is diagnosed. It’s not like malaria you treat and then expect it to go. You must take your drugs, monitor your BP and in partnership with your doctor, who will know when to add some drugs or reduce the dosage if need be.

“Hypertension can best be prevented by adjusting your lifestyle so that proper diet and exercise are key components. It is important to maintain a healthy weight, reduce salt intake, reduce alcohol intake, and reduce stress.”

Dr Orji stressed, “It is really important that people appreciate that being diagnosed as hypertensive is not a death sentence, what it requires is your cooperation with your physician to make sure that you control this sickness. That your blood pressure is normal today does not mean it would not soar again tomorrow. Proper control and medication are essential. It is important that you keep taking your drugs and consulting your doctor to help put it under control.

“I think it would be wise for every adult to check their BP once in three months at worse once in six months. For people above 40 years, that’s where the risk of hypertension actually comes into play. Below 40 years, we have juvenile hypertension coming up once in a while. You can never tell. But if you are hypertensive, it is some-thing you should check every week or fort-nightly depending on the control. 

So in all, hypertension is the trigger for all these life threatening diseases or conditions. If you can control hypertension, then chances are that you can avoid having any of these conditions,” he said.

VANESSA OKWARA/NatMir.

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We’ll recover subsidy overpayment, Okonjo-Iweala vows

Coordinating Minister for the Economy and Minister of Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, said yesterday that the Federal Government would recover the excess payments made to petroleum marketers, as soon as the Aigboje  Aig-Imoukhuede committee completes its assignment.

She revealed this in an interview after delivering a lec-ture at the second Prof. Barth Nnaji Lecture, at the Enugu State University of Technology, Enugu. 

President Goodluck Jonathan established the new Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede Committee, last Thursday, to verify and reconcile the findings of the Technical Committee set up by the Federal Ministry of Finance to conduct a detailed review of all subsidy claims and payments made in 2011.

According to the minister, the Presidential Committee, which had been given a deadline of one week, would enable marketers who may doubt the findings of the Com-mittee to come forward and be confronted with the bare facts of the earlier panel’s findings.

Okonjo-Iweala explained that although over 50 per cent of the N888 billion fuel subsidy budgeted for 2012 had been utilised owing to the heavy 2011 arrears, she was hopeful that a substantial recovery would be made from the excess payments which would augment the current balance.  

“In terms of the subsidy, it is true that we budgeted N 888 billion for the year.  We have used N451 billion of that.  We still have N370 billion left that we are working on.  So it is not like all the money is finished and we will be working on that,” she said.

“As you know, there was a recent report to verify 2011 arrears, that with the sup-port of Mr. President, I set up, chaired by Aig-Imokhuede.  We set it up in the Ministry of Finance and they have worked.  They used over 20 forensic accountants and bank examiners.  As a result, Mr. President two days ago constituted a Presidential Task Force also chaired by Mr. Aig-Imokhuede to try and just complete work on the verifica-tion and then begin the recovery,” the minister added.

“The verification is to give a chance to any of those marketers who say, ‘oh, maybe you got it wrong here or there’ to come forward.  And the President has given them a very tight deadline of about a week. When we finish with that then the next stage will be for us to try and get our money back.  

“We must get some of those resources back.  Let’s wait for the resources to come back.  I am sure Nigerians will like that and then we can take it from there,” said Dr Iweala.“President Jonathan has directed the 15-member committee headed by Mr. Aigboje Aig-Imoukhuede to begin work immediately and conclude its assignment by 1700 hours on Friday, July 13, 2012 as a prelude to immediate ac-tion on all identified cases of fraud.

Earlier in her lecture, the minister noted that Science and Technology held the key to the much needed rapid development and therefore must be accorded a place of priority by both governments at all levels, on the one hand and the private sector on the other.

She lamented that abysmal attention that Science and Tech current suffers in both sectors and therefore called for a closer collaboration between the two with a view to creating the needed, that would transform research findings in the laboratories of universities and research in-stitutes to increase industry production, in the country.

The minister also called for concerted efforts toward diversifying the nation’s economy, which currently depends on only oil as its major foreign exchange earner. Sectors that require immediate attention, according to her, include: agriculture, solid minerals, and services, among others.

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Sex Talk: 10 little, but wonderful sex tricks.**Waring** "This is X-rated"

Keep your panties on Back in secondary school, you probably had rules for how far you’d go: under the shirt, over the pants, and so on. Well, the teenage you were on to something. It can be pleasurable torture to play with each other over your underwear, teasing and stroking through the fabric. You’re building up the anticipation, so when you finally do have skin-on-skin contact, it’ll be that much more explosive and exciting.”

Bring matters to a head

There is a subtle adjustment you can make that can increase your chances of having an orgasm: the coital alignment technique, or CAT.

Have your partner move his entire body up about two inches.

Your partner’s pubic bone will rest on top of yours so that the base of his member presses on your clit.

This position provides continuous stimulation of your clitoris during inter-course, increasing your chances of having an orgasm.

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Get confident with perfect posture: Push your shoulders back and stand up straight. Whisper in his ear a play-by-play of exactly what it is you plan to do to him tonight. Loosen up — extend your arms high, bend over, try a split — within his view, of course. Tell him about your hot dream. Rest your hand on his inner thigh under the table.

Change the context

Some women are nervous to ask for what they want during sex because they feel it sounds too demanding.

Try broaching the subject in a different setting where you can express your desires in a more relaxed way.

Cuddle up to him while watching a sexy scene on TV and whisper, ‘I hope we’ll try that tonight.’

He’ll be receptive to your feed-back, no matter when you offer it.

Reach out and touch each other

A full-body massage helps stimulate the seven energy centres throughout your body, so you’re aroused from head to toe.

Start massaging your partner’s hands and wrists. Then move up the arms and shoulders until you reach the chest.

Next, starting from the feet and ankles, work your way up the legs and thighs until you reach the belly.

This sequence helps awaken his sexual energy.

When you’re done massaging him, have him do the same for you — this puts your energies in tune and helps create a sense of union, not to mention feels pretty damn good.

Light up with pleasure

Turn off the lights, take a flashlight, and guide the glow to areas of your body that you want him to lick or rub.

Start with your neck, ears, nipples — go wherever you want him to explore.

Even if it’s a nonsexual area like your back, he has to pay attention to that area until you stop shining the flashlight on it.

The fantasy encounter

Set aside 30 minutes of uninterrupted time on Sunday (finding this time may be the hardest part of the program, but trust us, it’s worth it) in a relaxed setting — perhaps in the bedroom after the children are asleep.

Wearing loose-fitting but attractive clothing, sit down together and share your sexual fantasies.

Let your imaginations roam free.

The caveat: Don’t touch, just talk.

Start sleeping in the nude

If you’re usually a head-to-toe night-dress woman (or man), take it in small steps: a tank and shorts, then just a tee, and so on until you’re completely nude.

Once you get over the nakedness of it, the feeling of having nothing on is actually powerful and potent — and may even lead to sexier dreams, not to mention a more tantalizing night time cuddle...or more.

Why not try standing up?

Almost nothing makes you feel as overwhelmed by lust as a quickie against a wall. Pick a moment (don’t tell him) and pounce.

Give him a hot, wet kiss, rub your body against his and say, ‘How about right here?’ If his reaction doesn’t make you feel like a sex symbol, nothing will.

Take it slow

“Peaking,” a technique in which you assume a slower-than-average pace during intercourse, can easily wind you both up for an ecstatic ending.

A constant, fast pace will dull your senses, but a slower rhythm will give your body time to adjust and allow the tension to eventually build up to even greater heights.

So try consciously moving as if in slow motion and see if it doesn’t bring both of you to an amazing simultaneous finish.

Use your eyes

Both men and women are stimulated by erotic visuals.

Try keeping the lights on and your eyes open (this also aids communication, as you can see what pleases your partner).

Making love in front of mirrors is a variation on the same theme. The effort pays off.

Once you begin to appreciate foreplay as an integral part of your life together, sexual satisfaction will always be just one short step away.

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Woman Bites Off Neighbour’s Nose Over Suspicions Of Snatching Her Husband

A housewife, Mrs. Ruka Amoha who claimed her husband has denied her sexual intercourse for some months decided to vent her anger on her neighbour, Mrs. Yemi Adelani.

Ruka, who alleged that her husband, Wasiu Amoha, starved her of sex because he was enjoying an amorous affair with her neighbour, descended on Yemi and bit off her nose, during an argument at their apartment.

“I cannot accept a situation where Yemi is enjoying her husband and mine at the same time thus denying me the opportunity to enjoy my husband,” said Ruka, a mother of three.

The incident happened at 13, Adealu Street, Dopemu, Lagos, southwest Nigeria.

Doctors at the Lagos General Hospital, Orile Agege confirmed that Yemi’s nose was  badly damaged  and she needs plastic surgery to survive.

The victim, a mother of four kids, confirmed that Ruka accused her of sleeping with her husband.

She denied ever having any affair with Wasiu, Ruka’s husband, who rented a room in the same building Ruka and her husband where reside.

Yemi said that the difference between them is that she has been living peacefully with her husband unlike Ruka who was always fighting her husband and neighbours.

Wasiu, the man at the centre of the storm confirmed to P.M.NEWS that he has been having constant quarrel with his wife, Ruka because of her behaviour.

When P.M.NEWS asked him why he was not having sex with his wife, he said it was because of her constant quarrel with him and he had no peace of mind to even think about sex.

On the day of the incident last week, Ruka reportedly ambushed Yemi and grabbed her nose and bit it off.

She bled profusely and was rushed to the hospital where she was treated. But she is still expected to undergo plastic surgery on the nose.

The police from Oke Odo Police Division later arrested Ruka. After interrogation, she was  charged before an Ikeja Magistrate’s Court sitting at Abule Egba  for assault and inflicting injury on Yemi.

The offence, the police said, is contrary to Section 244 of the Criminal Code, Laws of Lagos State of Nigeria, 2011.

She pleaded not guilty.

The presiding Magistrate, Mr. O.A. Komolafe granted her bail in the sum of N50,000 with two sureties in like sum; one of them must be her  blood relation.

The matter was adjourned till 24 August, 2012 for mention.

She was remanded in prison custody at Kirikiri pending when she will fulfil  her bail condition.

By Cyriacus Izuekwe of pmnews